We all know that flirting is a way for people to show their attraction to each other. The question is how do we flirt for success? If you want to flirt and succeed in getting the person you want, then follow these 10 secrets:
Eye Power. If you spot a person who you are interested in attracting, then make sure to make distinct eye contact with him or her. Once the two of you make that contact, give them a smile that lets them know that you are very happy to see them and that you find them very attractive. You know the smile we are talking about! The smile that tells people just how confident and sexy you can be! Give them that fixed, luring eye that they just will not be able to resist!
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Smiling Sexy is one of the most irresistible things about a person is their sexy smile! Make a habit of smiling a lot when you are out. You do not have to smile for no reason 24 hours a day of course, but do smile when you make eye contact with people. It will draw them to you, because people find smiling very confident and desirable.
The next time you see an attractive person you like, use your pearly whites as bait! If you wish to succeed in hinting all the right hints and getting the reaction you are looking for, then Playful Humor is the way to go! You can apply this on a person you just met, or on a date. Pick a good time in your conversation to lightly pick on him or her about something or make light jokes at your expense! People find it a turn on when you are able to laugh at yourself and make them laugh. Avoid making critical jokes about other people though, for it will only make you look insensitive and you will not succeed.
Touchy Feely is something you should only do if the both of you are on a comfortable level. Doing a little touchy feely on a date will put you on the right track! It lets your date know that they are wanted and desired and they will most likely respond to you with some touchy feely as well! Do it gently and never go overboard. For example, if you are at dinner, you can eventually gently place your hand on his or her hand and then smile. See how they respond.
Bring up Sexy Talk, the one main subject that men and women have in common in the first place lust and sex! Do not get too detailed or pornographic, but just start by asking what turns him or her on in a person. If the respond comfortably, the two of you may take the conversation as far as the both of you wish it to! Or if you see someone who catches your eye, say something such as, You have a very captivating smile or Your eyes are so hypnotic and inviting. Choose your words wisely, for you want to please them and have them desire you, not get offended by you!
If you want to be a successful flirt and attract your date, then Take Charge! Never wait for them to take the lead in a date. In fact, you will be making it easier on them by taking over as host and that will really impress them and draw them even closer to you. Make sure you know a few good and interesting topics to bring up before your date, so that you do not run out of ideas and get stuck! However, you do not want to over talk either, otherwise you will come as a chatterbox and turn him or her off.
You need to be a good Listening Skills as well! Everyone likes to be heard and paid attention to, so be a good date by giving your date that attention they crave so dearly for. By being a good listener, you will prove to your date that you are indeed very interested in them and it will make them open up to you even more!
If you see someone you find attractive, a good way to succeed getting to know them is by staring at them and Getting Busted for it! You have to get caught; otherwise they will never know you had your eye on them. Do not stare at him or her in a sense that could scare them off, but do it mysteriously, and when he or she catches you doing so, just give them a friendly and bright smile.
If they smile back, you can go up to them and say hello. Giving a sweet Wink is another successful and obvious way of flirting! Just do it once after making eye contact with that certain person and see how they react. If they react positively and you wish to pursue further with the flirting, then you can say hello and ask him or her how they are doing today, and ask them for a name. Last but not least, it is also essential to Compliment the person you have a particular interest in attracting. By complimenting them, you will make them feel special and attractive and this is exactly what you must do if you wish to be a successful flirt and expert. Examples of compliments would be making a nice comment on their hair, clothing, perfume or cologne, eyes, smile and so on. Avoid making comments on their body parts, especially with women because you will most likely offend them and come off as a pervert, which is not what you are aiming for! By following these secrets, you can hardly go wrong in getting to know the people you lust to meet!
